Have you ever been a Wingman for a lonely, single buddy as he went out in search of his true love? Many of us have been in this role at some point. It is very fitting that National Wingman Day exists to give recognition to that invaluable buddy, as true a friend as there will ever be, who plays a very important and diverse role in helping other guys to find and keep the woman of their dream. This is a day of recognition and thanks. And, it’s a day off from regular wingman duties, freeing him to seek love himself.

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines a Wingman as “a male friend who helps, accompanies, and supports a man in some activity”. This support doesn’t have to be for romantic endeavors, but it often is.  A Wingman can assist in any of several ways. He is a cheerleader, a coach, a counselor, and much more. He is the unsung hero, who helps to navigate the ways of love. The wingman “has your back” and is an advisor on how and what to do or not do in a romantic relationship. Importantly, he is always talking you up when the girls are around as if you are the most incredible guy on the planet. He’s always watching out for your best interest.  

Did You Know? A wingman can also be a dog. As my son experienced the dating scene, he found that the ladies were attracted to his cute pug dog. He described his dog as the “greatest wingman ever”, as he met many ladies this way. Ladies fell in love with the dog on sight.

Note: The term “Wingman” originated in the military. In the air force, a wingman is a pilot in the plane behind you that has your back.