Stepfamily Day was established to recognize and show appreciation for the importance and value of stepparents and extended families. This September 16 holiday was first celebrated with a picnic on September 16, 1997. The suggested method of celebration is a picnic at a park. Since its inception, it has slowly gained recognition and popularity. it creates a blended family with diverse traits and interests. Moreover it enriches the lives of all family members.

Stepfamilies are created through the death of a parent, divorce, or separation. A stepmother or stepfather comes into our life, often accompanied by a stepbrother or stepsister. While it begins with a tragic or unsettling event, these people are a blessing.

Decades ago, most marriages lasted for life. Separation and divorce were often looked down upon. Similarly, the innocent children in a broken family were once looked down upon. In today’s society, divorce and remarriages are unquestionably commonplace. Over 50% of all marriages end up in divorce. That means over half of us are divorced and/or children of divorce. Thus, it gives us cause to recognize the extended family and how they can enrich our lives.

So, take a minute today and reflect upon a past dejection. Then, smile with the realization that we are indeed loved by both our stepparents as well as our step siblings.